How To Deal and Overcome Insecurity In A Relationship In 7 Steps

Everyone brings their own emotional baggage into a relationship. Even when you’ve found a partner that you’re totally compatible with, that baggage can get unpacked and create trouble. Being overcome by insecurity in a relationship would certainly fall into the “it’s me, not you” category of why things might fail. Before that happens, you want to try and stop that insecurity from festering and triggering arguments.

Here’s what you need to consider to: Deal and Overcome Insecurity in your Relationship ℘ Cut Out the Comparisons Feeling insecure in a relationship often goes hand-in-hand with jealousy and that usually starts by comparing yourself to others. More specifically, you compare yourself to your partner’s former relationships.

Those people might be long gone or even in another state. However, you will feel as though you’re not as good looking or as charming as those past flames were. That can lead you to start thinking the same way about anyone who comes into the purview of your partner. That’s why you want to cut out the comparisons. The person you’re in a relationship with is with you. If they were looking for something else, then wouldn’t you really know that? ℘ Appreciate Your Special Qualities Feeling insecure in a relationship means you spend a lot of time picking on yourself. You don’t measure up. You’re not good enough. You don’t deserve to be with someone so great. That is the kind of negative thinking that needs to be flipped around.

Think about how many people you have in your life that are outside of your relationship. Don’t they matter to you? You’ve got friends and family who embrace and appreciate all your special qualities. Those qualities don’t stop when you are with your partner. Perhaps they should be amplified! What makes you the great person that your friends and family see? That’s who you want to share with your partner. ℘ Seek Out the Truth Insecurity breeds doubt. That usually translates into being misinformed about a wide variety of issues. If you have a doubt about something, then seek out the truth by asking the right questions of your partner.

Your biggest insecurity might have to do with whether or not you make them happy. The truth could be that you do make them happy but they’re internalizing some other stress that needs support. Seeking out the truth can start a dialogue that can bring you closer together as a couple. ℘ Control What You Can Control You can’t stop your partner from talking to someone.

Whether they’re at work or out in social situations, they’re going to have conversations with other people and, yes, sometimes those other people will be attractive. Don’t you do the same thing? Of course, you do. Conversations are just that, conversations. As much as you would like to, you’re never going to be able to read your partner’s mind.

You also can’t listen into all of their conversations. You don’t even have to know what they were about. If there is something to share, then they’re (they will) share. Otherwise, it might just be talk about the weather! ℘ Get to the Root Cause The way to overcome insecurity in a relationship is to get to the root cause. That means an introspective journey into yourself. It is a safe bet that the feelings of insecurity you are experiencing in this relationship you’ve experienced before. In fact, you might have been carrying these insecurities around with you for your entire life. It is time to find out what these triggers are all about.

To get there, you might want to seek out the support of a therapist. Don’t be intimidated from talking to a therapist. This exploration will be worth the effort. ℘ Stop Creating False Problems How many problems are caused in your relationship because you make stuff up? Maybe your partner is having a bad day for reasons that have nothing to do with you. What do you do? You create a scenario where their bad mood is because of something you did or didn’t do. To move beyond that, you want to find out what is really going on and then find a way to support them.

Sometimes that support can simply be giving them the space to work through their issues on their own. Knowing you’re there might be all they’re going to need. ℘ Stay with the Positives You’ll never be able to overcome insecurity in a relationship if you stay focused on the negatives. Is your relationship perfect? Probably not. Will it ever be? Probably not.

If you keep focusing on what is wrong, then there is no chance for love to flourish. You have to bring in the positive feelings. What is working between you? What are the good times you’ve shared and are looking forward to? What are you doing to make that person happy today? Staying on the positive side of things makes no room for insecurity. 

Sweet Love Messages for Girlfriend

♥ I wish everyday could be like today, beautiful and sweet, just like you girl!

♥ I tried to stop thinking about you, but it is just not earthly possible. I love you and every inch of your perfect body.

♥ No matter what, you will always be my lady, my queen, my life, my everything. I deeply love you!

♥ You are the reason I wake up with a smile on my face every morning. You are never off my mind; You are in my dreams, and even then, you are still perfect in every way.

♥ I could say to you a thousand words on how much I really love you, and how absolutely wonderful you are, but still then it would not be enough.

♥ It was attraction when we met, but now love is going to keep us together forever! ♥ My life has fell into place since the day you became mine, I love you so much!

♥ You taught me true meaning of life from you sweetheart. Thanks for being there for me always!

♥ You are there when I go to sleep, you are there when I wake up, and most importantly, you are there when I need you the most. I can not do nothing without thinking of you!

♥ I miss your smile, your gentle touch, your loving care. I just can’t wait to be with you again!

♥ No matter how high, I would climb a thousand mountains, no matter the amount of miles, I would walk them, no matter the ocean, I would swim across it, no matter what type of surface, I would crawl a thousand yards, all to see your smile.

♥ If you see a shooting star, make a wish. You may just end up with a true love’s first kiss.

Why And What Makes Us Fall In Love

Love they say is a beautiful thing. The intertwining of two souls, an unexplainable rush of feelings towards someone. Whatever way it makes you feel or act, love grows, and there are a series of events that ultimately lead people to fall in love. Unlike most other phenomenon in life, love has no definite cause and can be triggered by uncanny of circumstances, events and occurrences. Over the years, science has shed light on the cause and process of falling in love, the chemical involved such as Dopamine, Oxytocin, Norepinephrine and Phenylethylamine, Testosterone and the rest of it. But then, love isn’t just about some chemicals, it’s a function of preference and personal history.  6 Factors what makes us fall in Love Here are some factors that contribute to what makes people fall in love.

1. The way they smell Smells are emotional triggers. They trigger emotions built up from memories of the person you know. I once had an ex who used a particular perfume, when the relationship went southwards and we parted ways, I met an awesome guy but quickly disliked him because he used the same perfume as my ex. This scenario also works the other way round, when you’ve been in a relationship or dating someone for a very long time, you master how they smell. “I miss your fragrance, sometimes I miss it this much that I can clearly smell you in the air.” ― Qaisar Iqbal Janjua. This explains why couples cling to each other’s clothing and personal items when the other is far away, thy reconnect memories of their lovers through a whiff of the characteristic smell.

2. Similarities You tend to fall in love with someone who has similar traits and interests as you, share your love for art, music, food or any other thing. I have always seen similarities as the primary cause of people falling in love. I once had a friend Jeff who loved to paint water lilies, he would sit for hours by the sides, coloring these magnificent plants. Unfortunately, his art seemingly made it impossible to keep any relationship going as most women he met complained he seldom gave them enough attention nor spent substantial time with them until he met Lisa. Lisa was an art major, and the moment the two met, it was like a match made in watercolor heaven. The similarity of interest is indeed a major factor that influences who you fall in love with.

3. Physical characteristics We’ve heard of people drooling over actors and fitness models. Physical characteristic since the ancient times has been a contributing factor in falling in love. The reason is not far-fetched, the general attraction to a person is primarily focused on the outer physical appearance. Firstly, a term most prefer to call ‘infatuation.’ Whichever the case, physical characteristics such as beauty, height, smile, and color of the eyes, sure contributes to what makes you fall in love with someone.

4. Laughter The way a person laughs could trigger emotions and prompt you to fall in love. Laughter plays an important role in any relationship, and sometimes you realize you may start to laugh like the person you are in a relationship with. Suddenly you love the sound of their laughter so much that you subconsciously begin to mimic their own style of laughter, and trust me it is perfectly natural. Many don’t realize this, but when you fall in love with someone, you tend to borrow their body language and speech pattern, it’s not awkward there’s a scientific explanation to it. “A smile is the light in your window that tells others that there is a caring, sharing person inside,” Denis Waitley.

5. When they make you feel safe Care, affection, attention, these are attributes of love. When a person makes you feel safe through constant care, affection and concern, you are bound to develop feelings for him/her. Human beings are social animals, and as such you are easily attracted to people who show you care, attention and affection. Nick Cannon once said, “I think one of the most important things in a relationship is caring for your significant other through good times and bad.” When someone cares about you, you feel safe around them and ultimately fall in-love with them.

6. To grow beyond ourselves A psychologist at UCLA Martie Haselton believes love is a “commitment device,” a means by which two human beings encourage themselves to form lasting bonds through sharing of traits that promote personal development. Another study conducted by Arthur Aron a psychologist at Stony Brook University suggests that the basic instinct of a human being is to  “expand the self and to increase our abilities and our effectiveness.” Learning one or two from a person can trigger emotions which may ultimately lead to true love. In conclusion, there is no definite pattern to falling in love, it could happen with anyone, anyway and at any given circumstance.

6 Great Love Tips to Make Your Relationship Healthy and Strong

Who doesn’t want to learn a few great love tips? You know, advice on how to find great love or hang on to the love you’ve got. Whether you are new to the dating scene or long-married, it can be helpful to read some love tips from those who are in successful loving relationships. We brought together a group of these happy couples (and one single guy!) and asked them to share with us some of their tried and true love tips so that we, too, can be part of that select group of joyful people.

1. Never take your partner for granted

Jesse and Kaitlin have been living together for four years. “Love tips? I’d say that our biggest one would be to never take your partner for granted,” says Kaitlin. Jesse agrees. “Everyday I tell Kaitlin that I love her and appreciate her presence in my life. I never let her head hit the pillow at night without telling her how special she is to me.

I was married before and I think part of the reason our marriage failed is that I took my wife for granted. I don’t want that to happen again so I’m quite mindful of reminding Kaitlin how grateful I am that we are together.”

2. Marry someone you not only love but truly like

Shirley and Robert are celebrating their 40th wedding anniversary this year. Shirley shares her love tips: “I married my best friend. I’m not kidding. Robert and I have been friends since elementary school. We started dating in high school and we got married after he graduated from the military academy.

Our marriage has seen a lot of changes; being in the Air Force meant we moved every couple of years. But since our love is anchored in a true friendship, we were able to navigate all these transfers. I know Robert has my back and I have his. There’s an unbreakable trust in our marriage that sees us through the challenging times. So my love tip is this: marry someone you not only love but truly like.

3. Sharing the same expectations from the relationship

Philip and Carolyn are have been dating for one year. Philip tells us his love tip: “I think for a relationship to work, both people have to have the same expectations of what they want out of the relationship. This may sound odd to some people, but Carolyn and I wanted to have an ‘open’ relationship, what they call polyamory these days.

My last relationship didn’t work out because my girlfriend wasn’t on the same page as me, she expected complete faithfulness and monogamy. I didn’t want that, so I broke up with her. Then I met Carolyn who is like me, wanting to have multiple experiences but also wanting one primary partner. My love tip is this: make sure your love partner has the same values and expectations regarding what you want out of the relationship as you, or you are setting yourselves up for conflict and disappointment.”

4. Sharing the same values and aspirations in life

Sharing the same values and aspirations in life

Leah and Samuel are recent newlyweds, after having dated for two years. Leah tells us her love tip: “I’d date a lot before I met Samuel. We were set up by friends from our synagogue. I had noticed Samuel before; he’s tall and cute and fairly active in the temple.

But it wasn’t until we were set up that I had a chance to talk one on one with him. Right away I knew there was something there. We clearly had the same values and came from an identical background. So all the stress that can happen when you are your partner come from different socio-economic classes just wasn’t there. We had both graduated from the Ivy League and we both were working for well-known financial institutions. All of these things that we had in common made getting together smooth and easy. It’s like we speak the same language.

Listen: when I was younger I was all about dating ‘bad guys’, you know, guys who were from the wrong side of the tracks. I thought that was sexy and made me look daring. My love tip is this: for a relationship to work well with as little conflict as possible, marry someone who is like you in terms of upbringing and aspirations. It will make things much easier.”

5. Find someone who is different from you

Alisha and Randall tell a very different story. “I love that Randall was totally different from me. I don’t want a partner who is a carbon copy of my life. That’s just boring. I want someone whose narrative teaches me something, and Randall is like from another world.

He immigrated from Haiti when he was a teenager. His family was poor and uneducated but knew they could have a better life here in America.

Me?

Born and bred right here in New Jersey. No one could be more ‘typically American’ than me. I think great relationships are made when the two partners can teach each other something, so diversity within the couple is a good thing. My love tip? Look for that person that will open your world to something you didn’t even know you were missing.”

6. Define what you don’t want in a partner

Lastly, there’s Mark. Mark is not yet in a relationship, but active on several dating platforms. “Something I’ve discovered about finding love through dating websites is this: you can’t have a hard list of what you are looking for in a partner. But it is helpful to have a list of what you aren’t looking for.

I’m very open to being flexible about what I’m seeking, but there are a few non-negotiable things that say “no deal” to me as I look through the women’s profiles. And you have to stick to these non-negotiables, no matter how much you want to be in a relationship. My love tip is this: rather than knowing what you want, you’d do better with defining what you don’t want.”

These handy tips will definitely help you with your love life. While there is no specific recipe to a successful relationship, some simple advice can guide you get through it better.

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5 Hot Tips to Make Your Readers Fall in Love

ou’ve tried to get their attention. You’ve read the right books, listened to all the gurus, and freshened up your appearance, but it’s not working.

You aren’t being noticed by the one you love. Your ideal customer isn’t giving you the time of day. They’re ignoring your offers. All of your overtures are rebuffed.

They’re just not that into you.

To wrap up Valentine’s week here on Copyblogger, we’re going to cover how to flirt with potential customers, get their attention, and make them fall head over heels with your product or service. It’s a five-part technique that — when implemented together — will attract the most resistant customer.

1. Make yourself desirable

Want to capture your potential customer’s attention? Give them what they’re looking for.

Hunger is the best sauce.
~ Italian proverb

Share valuable information, and make sure you’re offering what they actually want. You can do that by:

  • Checking your search stats to see what terms people use to find your site,
  • Using sites like Twitter and Facebook to “listen in” to conversations about what buyers in your niche want, and
  • Observing what people actually buy (rather than what they think they would buy).

High-quality information will establish your expertise and build your authority over time, and that is irresistible.

2. Show them the goods

You’ve captured their attention with your valuable, optimized content. Now it’s time to get their number so you can stay in touch.

Forget about all those cheap pick up lines you learned in high school. (Or the equally cheap lines that are still taught by sales trainers who apparently think we’re going door to door with vacuum cleaners.)

Instead, dangle something in front of your audience that they’ll find so useful, so compelling, and so tempting they’ll be rushing to type their e-mail address in your opt-in form.

Offer a solution to a problem, or a series of tips. Create a guide or checklist for getting something accomplished. Give them access to a free audio or video product.

It’s the first step in a sales funnel that will lead them along from free, to entry-level, moving through mid-range and on to the top of your price range. A really good free offer will make them fall right into the top of your funnel before they know what’s hit them.

3. Surprise them (in a good way)

Once they’ve signed up for your free offer, surprise them with the high value content you keep delivering. This is the ideal time to establish that you are a class act, and make it known you won’t let them down.

Deliver superior quality content, and present it in a professional-looking package. If it’s blog content, make sure your site looks great and works perfectly. If it’s an e-book, take the time to design it well. If it’s an email auto-responder, create a template that’s polished and easy to read. If it’s audio or video, deliver it with the best production values you can muster.

Because they’re watching your every move at this point. You have their attention. Don’t blow it.

4. Respond to their overtures

After you’ve done steps 1 through 3, some — not all — of your audience will respond to your customer flirtation techniques.

You might start to get blog comments, Twitter DMs or e-mails sent from your website.

When the messages come in, be sure to respond promptly and professionally. Don’t leave your prized customer hanging!

Show potential customers they can count on you to be responsive and trustworthy. Let them know you’ll be there when they need you.

5. Stay faithful

The last step? Repeat the first four over and over.

Consistent, high-quality content delivered over time will establish you as a reliable, authoritative source of information. “Getting their number” and staying in touch (via an email or RSS subscription) will allow you to continue the courting process. And reliable, responsive customer service will seal the deal.

When it’s time to swoop in and make the sale, the stage will be set. Your customers will be all warmed up and ready for action. These techniques will make it easy to sweep them off their feet.

Before you know it, they’ll be in your arms with wallets open — captivated by your content, smitten with your services, and carrying a torch for your products.

‘52 Things I Love About You’ Ideas & Tips

Here are some reasons/ideas:

  • You are an amazing Dad to our kids
  • You can make me smile for no reason
  • You always make me laugh
  • You send me flowers for no reason
  • You make me think positive when I’m negative
  • You can see the best in me
  • You cook me dinner sometimes
  • You always come up with crazy things to do
  • You never forget important days
  • You always want to be close to me
  • You send me random loving texts
  • You put your family first
  • You’ll watch girly shows with me
  • You kiss the kids & I right when we get home
  • You are always my shoulder to cry on
  • You push me to do my best
  • You can make decisions when I can’t
  • You are not afraid to be silly
  • You still open the door for me
  • You can always calm me down
  • You make yourself laugh
  • You make me feel safe
  • You make great barbecue
  • You don’t care when I’m a bum
  • You can talk to me about anything
  • You provide for your family
  • You hold my hand when we’re walking
  • You have made the last 5 years amazing
  • You listen to my stupid stories
  • You’ll make me ice cream at 11 at night
  • You are not afraid of what others think
  • You are always working hard
  • You let me sleep in on the weekends
  • You hold me the right way
  • You always kiss me goodnight
  • You don’t mind when I don’t cook dinner
  • You’re proud to have me as your wife
  • You try to help around the house
  • You read to the kids every night
  • You want what’s best for your family
  • You make a good pillow
  • You always say what’s on your mind
  • You can admit when you’re wrong
  • You stare at me lovingly
  • You like to surprise me with little things
  • You put up with my crazy family
  • You accept me for me
  • You are crazy silly cute with our kids
  • You try to better our relationship
  • You allow me to stay at home with our children
  • You kiss my forehead
  • You try to fix everything around the house
  • You’ll shop with me every so often
  • You hold me when you are sleeping
  • You always stand by my side
  • You take time to call just to say hi
  • You are perfectly imperfect
  • Simply because you are you

Ideas from My Wonderful Readers –

  • {Put a small photo your each child on a page}
  • {Add dates: date you met, date you got married, dates your kids were born, etc}
  • {Make a couple different fonts for the different reasons. Maybe having a silly font for the more silly reasons and a “serious” font for more “serious” reasons}
  • {Make the last one say ‘You said ‘I Do’ X years ago” and put the date}
  • You make our house a home
  • You don’t mind that I take up most of the closet
  • You always make me coffee when i want it
  • You are the best spider killer
  • You always take care of me when I’m sick
  • You can finish my sentences
  • You know me so well, you could order for me at our favorite resturant
  • You know what all of my favorite things are
  • You let me change the channel when it’s half time of a sports game
  • You help me do the dishes after dinner
  • You kiss our daughter (or son) goodnight and tuck her in for the both of us
  • You remind me everyday that your love for me is endless
  • You leave me notes in my lunch reminding me to smile
  • You make the bed even if I didn’t tell you too
  • You always put gas in my car because you know I don’t like to do it
  • I love how you bring me home dessert when you return from a business dinner
  • You are kind to my friends
  • You are loving and respectful towards my parents and grandparents
  • You give the best advice and perspective
  • You make any story more entertaining when you tell it
  • You encourage me to follow my dreams
  • You let me dress you
  • You still get me Mothers Day cards from our dogs even though we have a human baby now
  • You compliment meals I put a lot of effort into making, even when they do not turn out so great
  • You clean the disgusting hair clogs (of mine) from the tub drain
  • You still tear up when you think of Dakota (our fantastic dog who died 4 years ago)
  • You let me see you cry
  • You tuck me into bed and say our goodnight talk when your not going to bed with me
  • You want to spend your lunch breaks with me everyday and get sad when we don’t
  • Your always optimistic for the both of us
  • You always do the yard work
  • You’ll eat the things I don’t like
  • You’ll help me reach things on the top shelf
  • You still like to cuddle
  • You always say my cooking is great (even if its sub par)
  • You’ll give me massages even when I don’t ask
  • You always sweep off my car in the winter
  • You think your farts are hilarious
  • I love that I can trust you with my heart.
  • I love you because you love my kids like they are yours.
  • I love you because you never walk in front of me.
  • I love you because you adore my friends.
  • I love you because you make me laugh.
  • I love you because you tell me everyday that I am your girl
  • your goofy car dancing
  • that face you make when your guilty
  • you have your priorities straight
  • You still say I’m beautiful when I’ve been up for days with no makeup with the kids.
  • You let me sleep when you know the boys kept me up all night.
  • You miss my cold feet at night if they’re not on you.
  • You take out the trash.
  • You sing and make inappropriate jokes when you get nervous.
  • You don’t complain when I shop.
  • You tell me I’m beautiful even when I’m pregnant and don’t feel beautiful.
  • You go for walks.
  • You go flee market shopping.
  • I love you because you clean the goop off the dogs eyes.
  • You are kind to animals.
  • Your grin when I am annoying or pestering you.
  • You’re easy to scare.
  • You can watch a movie you’ve seen many times, and you still react like it’s the first time you’ve seen it.
  • You use sound effects to tell a story.
  • You always make time for me
  • You still look at me the way you did when you first told me you were in love
  • You call me princess
  • You open the car door for me still
  • You’ve never given up on me
  • Your here through good times and bad
  • I love your beard
  • I love your snuzzle hair. (aka bed head)
  • Our inside jokes
  • The face you make when you get caught snacking before dinner.
  • You stuck by me when nobody else has
  • You still give me butterflies everyday.
  • You listen to me complain.
  • You say your sorry when you know I am right, which is always.
  • You don’t change my music in the car.
  • You let me pick the movie most always.
  • You always call me baby.
  • love your beard
  • I love your snuzzle hair. (aka bed head)
  • Our inside jokes
  • The face you make when you get caught snacking before dinner
  • You’re not afraid to say you’re sorry.
  • You unclog the toilet so I don’t have to do it since you know I get grossed out easily.
  • You are passionate.
  • You take my breath away.
  • You proudly attend all of our children’s many activities.
  • You decorate our house for the holidays and actually enjoy doing it.

How to forget love

How to forget past love 

Falling in love and drowning in love … maybe once in everybody’s life. It is not a difficult thing to become loving someone but to keep this love alive forever … it can really be a little difficult. Because your girlfriends should have a lot of love and attention … if there is some negligence in it … so boys !! You make it difficult for us to be easy … we are telling you that easy to follow love tips, you can become the world’s most beloved boyfriend !! And dear girls, if you do not understand how to tell your boyfriend how to talk about your mind, give them love tips for boyfriend, who will become their guide, “Guide to Being a Good Boyfriend!”;)

1.Sunness is also necessaryWe like girls’ things to talk … we can talk things all day … do not worry, we are not refusing to talk to you. But what is it? It is necessary to listen with speaking, is not it? That’s it! Listen to his words with full patience … Now that he may be the headache of all day, shopping list, friends complain or something … listening and listening to it will make you “true man”!

2. Show love tooIt is an important love tip that love is as important as it is necessary to reveal it to him. Whether these texts are face-to-face or in front of everyone on social media Your special expression on Facebook Post will take the joy of your girlfriend to the seventh heaven. So keep abreast of your love from time to time and keep on touching the smile of your girlfriends face.

3. Do not hide your past from the present.The biggest and most common mistyc !! The love tip for every boyfriend is that if you are meeting with your x-girlfriend, you are talking to him, do not hide from your girlfriends. Maybe your Lady Love is feeling insecure with your X …. It would be better to distance yourself from your past.4. Flirt AlertGuy, now because you’ve got a great girl in your life, why not reduce your flirting habit slightly! In Love Tips, this tip is important that you can become a ‘charming boy’ even without flirting. And if you are also flirting without playing any of the emotions, then decide by thinking whether it is to tell your girlfriends or not … Some light flarking will not harm your love life.

5. Burning is fine but do not doubtIf your girlfriends are talking to another boy or have friends with other boys, then it is natural to have your jail. Look at this love tip and suspect your girlfriend on this matter …. Not cool at all! You can make a wrong decision by doubting …. So trust him. 
6. Those three words of magic …This tip is of great importance when talking about Love Tips Four Boyfriends. Thing is correct but it is still very accurate today. Do not forget to say “I love you” from time to time. It will not only be good to say it to you repeatedly, but it will make a secure decision.7. Something differentBe sure, things will boring only when you let them boring …. So, to save your love life from this boredom, do something different … plan a surprise … dinner, road trip … anything that is the choice of girls. Something that is different from your routine … such as a weekend trip?
8. Keeping friends involved with special attentionNote that on the love tip that when you introduce him to your friends, remember that he has to introduce himself as his girlfriend. In front of your friends, tell in your circle that this girl is special to you. People will forget their names but they will always remember this identity and your girlfriends will also have a decidedly respected face in front of everyone.9. Become Special for FamiliesGirls like to show their best behaviors when meeting her family and friends. Maybe you do not feel comfortable with everyone at all. But try it out. Ultimately, even that too does this for you.10. It is also necessary to provide a little spaceNowadays, Murden and Bhagti- Lifestyle do not necessarily mean that they want 24X7 to be with you … hence, a little space is also important. Believe this love tip and if they want to go out with their girl-gang, do not erase them by calling or messaging them repeatedly. But you also plan to have fun with your boys-gang !! Right?
11. It is also necessary to look specialThere is no harm in your jeans and T-shirts but it would be nice if you wear special clothes for special occasions. Going to dinner together or meeting their family … If you wear special suits you will be more special.12. Submit your ladyEvery girl likes that you always accompany her, support her words in front of others … If you are not feeling right about her then do not talk to everyone, but later talk to her about it. He would love to do this to you.

10 Ways to Inspire Your Partner to Change for the Better

Relationships should inspire people to grow and become a better person – and if they’re lucky, they’ll find themselves in the presence of someone who will both nurture and take care of them without asking anything in return – because that’s really how real love is supposed to be.

Many times, we meet special people in our lives that no matter how imperfect they are, we are still willing to love and accept them – until reality steps in: “love is blind”, as the famous line goes – and in our blindness, we tend to take these small and seemingly insignificant “flaws” for granted until it’s already too late.

If you play the role as the giver and the nurturer in your relationship, what actions should you take to make sure that you are a good and healthy influence to your significant other’s life?

To answer this question, let’s look at the following ways on how to inspire your partner to change for the better:

1. Lead them out of their comfort zone.
Let your love give them enough strength to face the world without fears. Most of the time, people are too scared to go out of their comfort zone either because of a suffered trauma from their past experiences or the anxiety of just facing new and unfamiliar things and circumstances.

Be their strength and their refuge and let them know that if things get rough out there, you’ll be there to hold their hand and face the world together.

2. Encourage them to choose optimism and positivity.
Don’t let them drown in self-pity and unnecessary emotions especially during the hardest times. It’s normal to feel helpless whenever one is bombarded by challenges but let them realize that when life gives you lemons, you can always make the best and tastiest lemonade – together.

3 Inspire them to be more ambitious and determined.
Relationships should not feel like a cage especially if one of you is a dreamer and a free-spirit. Let your partner fly and inspire them to achieve their goals without letting your commitment be a burden. Instead of overprotecting them from what’s out there, give them wings to soar higher. At the end of the day, they’ll come home to you.

4. Assure them that being assertive is a good thing.
Especially for girls who are not really confident when it comes to expressing their own opinion and fighting for their ideals. For guys, make your girl feel that what she thinks matter – regardless of what society thinks; girls can be equally powerful and successful and they have every right to be ambitious, to fight for what they believe in. Be a great sidekick and a reliable cheerleader.

5. Awaken their desire to live and enjoy a happy life.
People can’t be at their best all the time especially if they’re going through a really difficult stage in their life. Sometimes, your cheerful girlfriend can become an emotional and sad little girl; sometimes the boy you love just gets depressed and loses interest in the things that he used to enjoy. Your job, as a partner and a good friend, is to remind them that life is still beautiful – that no matter how sad or angry or scared they feel right now, better days will come.

6. Help them trust themselves.
Never let your partner feel that their decisions are always wrong and that they are incapable of making the right choices. The last thing you want to do is to make them feel that they can’t trust their own instincts, and that they cannot rely on their own judgement especially at times when their confidence is all they have left.

7. Make them understand the importance of physical and emotional health.
This is very important especially for young people in love. Relationships are not just about romance or passion. True love and having a healthy relationship are about nurturance and growth – physically and emotionally.

It’s important to motivate your partner to subscribe to a healthier lifestyle. Why don’t you do something fun, productive and nurturing? Work out together, enjoy other hobbies, relax and just be with nature?

8. Persuade them to plan ahead and to believe in the future.
Beyond passion and romance, relationships should accept the realities of life – and the responsibilities of living. Plan ahead, financially, as a couple. Invest in something promising, try new things and be a more responsible adult.

Love may be the purest and most beautiful thing in the world – but it can’t pay the bills. It’s always better to plan and look forward to short-term and long-term goals, especially if you want to have a brighter future together.

9. Show them how to accept their imperfections.
People will always feel incomplete or unworthy because they are scared to accept that they are not perfect and that their flaws make them unlovable and undeserving of affection.

As a partner, you must take it your personal mission to make your significant other see how beautiful and how perfect they are in their own ways. Love them so hard that they can feel how truly special they are. Hug them so tight until they break the mask that prevents them from seeing their true inner beauty.

10. Just let them be whatever they want to be.
As long as it’s not hurting them. We do not have the right to demand someone to change and be a different person just because what they are doesn’t fit our definition of what is good and perfect. That’s why it’s important to be reminded that the only time it is fair to influence someone’s ideals, thoughts and beliefs if these aspects of their personality are starting to lead them astray.

It’s important that we should be there to inspire and encourage our significant other to be a better person – not based on our own definition nor on our desire to be in control of another human being.  You should always keep in mind that as a partner, you have to accept your significant other for what they are and what they can become. It is your role to inspire them to be a better person but it is not your right to force them to change.

Romantic Good Night Messages for Your Lover

♥ There are a lot of days which have passed and yet there are many to come. Among all those days I will not let this night go by without telling you that I love you and may all your dreams come true. Goodnight my love.

♥ There is no distance that I might not go to tonight just to be with you and to wish you a very warm good night.

♥ Just checking in to say Hi, hoping that you had a fruitful day and wishing for a very comfortable night sleep ahead, goodnight.

♥ You are the first thing that comes to my mind when I wake up and you are the last thing on my head when I fall asleep. In short, I cannot stop thinking about you. Goodnight.

♥ I wonder how well you sleep at night, and what kind of dreams you have. I wish I could step into them like you step into mine. Goodnight beautiful.

♥ I am counting down the minutes until I see the morning sun, because it will mark the start of the day when I will see you again. Goodnight, my love.

♥ Did you know there are 86400 seconds in a day? I have missed you for every one of those. I can’t wait to see you tomorrow.

♥ I wish I had the words to tell you how much you mean to me, but no matter how much I try, they never sound right. I will dream of you all night.

♥ My life has changed so much since I met you, I hope it never goes back to the way it was before. I can’t wait to see you in my dreams.

♥ Laying in my bed, I close my eyes so that I don’t miss a minute of looking at you even whilst you’re away…I’ll be dreaming about you.

Cute Love SMS for Boyfriend

There are times when people give me every reason to hate this world, but then the moment your thought comes to my mind, I start to enjoy even the worst that I have to face.

♥ You can stop my eyes so that they cannot see you, you can stop my mind so that it does not think about you, but you can never stop me from loving you.

♥ I know that we will never be apart, because you happen to live in my heart.

♥ You are the last thing on my mind before I fall asleep and you are the first thing in my mind of as soon as I wake up. Is this love or what?

♥ I thought I knew what love was. Then I met you. Now I know love can be so much better than I ever imagined.

♥ Of all the dreams I’ve had, you are by far the greatest to come true.

♥ Every moment I’m with you I fall more in love with you. Even Cupid couldn’t see this coming.

♥ We’re raised to be told what love should be, but never understanding how love feels. Because of you, I know what it feels like to be in love.