How to Take Nude Pictures of your Lover

Want to know how to take nude pictures of your girlfriend or boyfriend? Here’s everything you need to know while snapping your lover in the nude.

Click here to read the introduction on should you take naked pictures of your partner?

So what are the things you should know?

There are a few fine-print essentials that you ought to know and grasp before snapping in the birthday suit.

Snapping pictures isn’t really as simple as it seems.

Maybe the occasional snap off the cell phone is a bit of a teaser, but a good arousal takes more than that.

[Read: Sexy real life public flashing confessions]

Do you trust each other?

If you have to convince your mate to slip out of their clothes and stand or twirl stark-naked, while you embark on a mission to take a few worthy pictures or videos of your bedroom romp, you really need to have that trust.

Look around, everywhere we see, there are thousands of leaked videos and naked pictures of exes, well, mostly women.

Paris Hilton too had a leaked tape, but she isn’t complaining, is she? That tape has done more good to her than bad! Anyways, switching to you now.

[Read: Seven sexiest places to have sex in your lifetime]

If you want to videotape each other in bed, you need to be comfortable with the fact that your magical intimate moment is now going to be stored in a white piece of paper or in a CD for all of forever. You need to have enough faith in the relationship and on your partner.

And answer that big question in your head. “Will my lover spread my nude photos to pals, or worse, the internet?!” Most people answer wrong to that question.

How to look good in photos and videos?

If you want to entice, and make your mate fall in love with their bedroom snapshots, you need to make them look good. You may love the bed with the lights off, but no cam’s going to work there, and even with that blinding flash, you’d only be caught with the weirdest expressions on your face. If you want to go snapping, you need good lights.

Not those harsh ones from tube lights or blinding sunlight representatives! You just need soft lights which can shine great and make your bodies look beautifully soft, supple and feel yummy warm. Record your deeds with your camcorder and go easy. Start slow, let the emotions take over (even if you’re trying to show your best side to the camera), and just be natural. [Read: How to get anyone to skinny dip with you]

Don’t take trashy pictures in corny positions

If you’ve always had a fetish to watch your woman dressed like a maid while you spank her in a spanking booth, or if watching your man suspended magically by his little member makes your libido go jiggy, great guns for you. There goes the twenty one rounds of happiness in your honor. [Read: Does your partner have a fetish?]

But don’t snap those moments to start off with. Your mate might do all that just to please you, but they’d feel real awkward once they see themselves in print or on video. And heaven forbid, what if that tape gets misplaced? With kinky stuff like that, you’d not go anywhere close to Paris or Kim Kardashian, you’d just go straight to the ugly section, along with some really bad pot bellies and yucky gooey kisses. Admit it. Those obsessions don’t look good on print, do they?

Watch your own video

Taking pictures or recording your lover in the act is fun. And sex can be so much better. While recording, and after that. While recording, it’s a high of being watched. While it can be an entirely new rush when it is watched together during the next time you and your lover decide to hit the love sack. [Read: Sexiest types of sex ever]

Watching your partner and yourself making out when you’re purring in bed is a huge turn-on. And who hasn’t got turned on by watching another couple in the act? Here, it’s even better. It’s you and your mate. And the both of you look so sexy and flawless!

Naked pictures of ex girlfriends and boyfriends

The tip of the iceberg is quite prominent. Even though the actual iceberg may be six times as large as the tip, the tip is what scares us. And that’s just the same way with snapping pictures and taking videos in the nude. It’s just too risky these days! And then, the spurned lovers have got more revengeful too.

Pictures and splatter about exes are all over the internet, the blogs and in photo galleries. And there’s every chance that it can get into the wrong hands. Even if you are involved with a loyal lover. A friend may find it in the lowest rack of your cupboard, and take it home for fun. And then, a few of your friends may find those carelessly flung pictures. [Confession: My ex’s revenge ruined me]

And from there on, who knows where it might go. Sometimes, even a fun, good hearted friend may chip in in spreading your private moments far and wide, without actually wanting to. The thought of taking nude pictures and making videotapes might be exciting, but in the wrong hands, the experience can become mortifying!

What happens if someone sees it?

It’s your choice when it comes to pictures and videotapes, isn’t it? But then, on an occasional note, things may start to go awry. If you find a friend’s (opposite sex) nude picture and you have it stored in your hard disk, can you keep it, or does it have to go?

I think naked pictures and videos come with a problem. If anyone sees you naked, they want to sleep with you (strictly opposite sex here!) unless you’re some celebrity and your videos are all over the net. So if you find a naked picture of someone, things are bound to get steamy soon. You may be tempted, or you may flirtatiously tell them that you’ve seen them naked.

[Read: Top 10 male sexual fantasies and Top 10 female sexual fantasies]

Or that person might have actually slipped the picture at a desperate juncture, to make sure you see it, and take it. But whatever happens here, unless the picture is discarded, there’s a good chance that sex will follow.

How to get laid with nude photos?

On the flipside, could you actually circulate private nude pictures of yourself to get laid? Sure, you can. [Read: How to have sex with a friend]

And there’s a good chance that could work. But one Lilliputian pointer here, you will have to ensure that no one knows that these pictures are circulated all over. Everyone has to think they’re the only person receiving these pictures. It has to appear like a tête-à-tête. If the word does slip that you are all over town, then you’re talking about a trashy reputation and the walk of shame to a new town!

Now that you know how to take nude pictures of your lover, click here to continue reading about how to keep a naked photo safe with these precautions.

Seven Sexy Places to Have Sex

Sex in the bedroom is warm and passionate. But as the years roll by, you’ll need this list of the sexiest places to have sex in, to keep the passion on a high.

Click here to read the introduction on the seven sexiest types of sex.

Sexy places to have sex

For many couples, sex is the missionary style, and experimenting in bed is flipping a coin to see who’s on top. How exciting!

What most couples don’t realize is that sex, just like everything else in life, needs a little variation once in a while. You don’t eat the same food every day, so why should sex be one rusty position every time?

If you want to keep the passion and the excitement of making love alive, you need to indulge in a bit of risqué business once in a while.

We’ve compiled a list of the sexiest places to have sex, and these places truly are sexciting! So if you’re in one of these seven sexy places and feeling really naughty in your pants, don’t hold back.

We can assure you that you’ll have some of the best sex of your lives in these sexy places to have sex!

#7 Sex at the party

There’s something about a smoky dance floor full of sexy, skimpily dressed people that turns us all on. Who knows whether it’s the flickering orbs of light, the heavy sweat that drips down your body or the heavy petting that you indulge in while grinding with your partner. But moving against each other in the midst of so many other people in a hazy room screams nothing but horny sex. Almost every single one night stand starts off at a party. Whether it’s a first kiss between friends or a bit of hand-in-the-underwear time between lovers, nothing beats the rush of party sex.

Parties and parking lots are some of the best places to have sex or indulge in some serious heavy petting. There are people all around, and the floor reeks of sex. Everybody on the dance floor’s horny and everyone wants to have sex. Who’s indulged in a bit of heavy groping and petting on the dance floor and taken it to the car? Yeah, lift your hands up!

#6 Sex in the wilderness

What’s better than a road trip? Well, a road trip with a lot of sex and wilderness in it. Have you ever stopped by the wilderness while you’re on a highway to have sex? The trees are dense, the ground is rocky, the ants are everywhere and anyone could walk by at any moment. And the orgasms gush, just like a waterfall in the wilderness. [Read: How to take nude photos of your lover]

#5 Sex in transportation

Sex is transportation is a great sexual high that will stay in your mind for a lifetime. As clichéd as it may sound, sex in a parked car is one of the best places to have sex. For many, it’s the first time they’ve had sex, and for many others, it breaks the shackles of regular bedroom sex. But whatever the reason may be, this is an unforgettable one.

Some frisky lovers have taken this further and had sex in an overnight bus full of people, and a few others have joined the mile high club on a plane! Sex in transportation is definitely one of the most memorable and yet scary places to have sex.

#4 Sex in water

Hydro sex is hot and everyone’s fantasy. Ever wanted to go skinny dipping on the beach? [Read: How to skinny dip]

If you’ve ever wanted to do it in water, this is one of the best places to have sex for you. Love holding a hand shower on some strategic body parts for a long time? It feels good, doesn’t it? Having sex in the ocean or a pool feels so much better than that. You’re wearing the bare minimum, and it’s just a couple of inches of cloth between you and nudity. And you’re shoulder deep in water and no one knows how close people can really get without touching each other in places.

Sex on a lonely beach is one of the sexiest places to have sex. You’re all alone, and yet, the vast emptiness can be so confusing and tempting. And sex in a Jacuzzi, don’t we all know how good hydro power can feel near our privates?

#3 Risky places

Now we have places to have sex, and we have THE most risky places to have sex. Now this is crazy and can even be ridiculously hilarious if you’re tipsy, but it’s these places that can give you a chance to create some of the best sexual memories.

There are a few places you just can’t have sex. It’s kind of taboo, and it’s just bad. And that’s what makes this so much fun.

You know your life best, can you think of the riskiest places to have sex, a place where you can’t even dream of having sex? Well, do it there! Some of the best places to have risky sex are a hospital or a host’s bed when you’re spending a weekend in their place. Or want to get even more dirty? Find someone tipsy or sleeping in bed (hopefully king size). Slip into bed and quietly have sex! Gosh, where do we even get these ideas?!! [Read: Threesome sex]

But nevertheless, when you have sex in these places, you really can’t afford to get caught! The consequences could be disastrous or even funny. But it’s not pretty when you’re caught with your panties in a twist at your ankles, and you have no way to explain yourself!

#2 Sex in a friend’s place

Spending a night over at a friend’s place with your partner? Pack up your condoms and get ready for a wild night. Now you don’t really have to put on a show for a friend here, unless you want to!

If you’ve been having sex in a quiet bedroom for a few years, a friend’s place can be one of the best places to have sex. A couple of drinks, a lot of PDA and sexy touching later, you can’t help but want to have sex. Everyone loves flashing a bit of skin now and then, and when you’re spending the night at a friend’s place, you don’t have to worry about privacy. You’re completely naked and making out, and you know your friends are just outside the door, only a few feet away from you. It’s wild sex of the safe kind. It can break the boredom and the next time you’re having sex at home, you can still talk about it in bed and get turned on a lot more.

#1 Sex in a public place

No bedroom on earth beats the thrill of thwacking skin in a public place. It’s scary, risky, uncomfortable, and yet, so darn exhilarating. It’s like a rollercoaster ride that pounds your heart through the whole ride, and you love every minute of it.

Have you ever had sex in the office, when it’s just you and a frisky buddy who’s working late into the night? The sex is thrilling and the fear of getting caught can give you a high that’s just unimaginable. Having sex in any public place is just as good, whether it’s in a restroom, a changing room or even in a hotel balcony. The rush of having sex in an unsafe place without knowing if someone will walk in or have a good peep show adds all the thrill of a good sexual suspense thriller. [Read: Fun on the beach]

Why do you think couples love making out in the public when they’re on vacation? It’s the thrill, baby. It’s the unforgettable thrill of taking a risk and orgasming to a crescendo. [Read: Getting naked in public]

And even if you get caught, who cares! You’re on vacation, and that’s another place to have sex, and another great story to recollect in bed for years to come!

But when you’re doing the deed in a public place, always remember the unwritten law of having sex in a new place in a new way – Never do anything that you wouldn’t want to explain to the paramedics.

But other than that, go on and find that special horny place that can change your sex life forever. It’s worth it.

[Read: Top male fantasies]

[Read: Top female fantasies]

When you’re looking for the sexiest places to have sex, don’t bother looking beyond these seven sexy places to have sex. They have it all, and they’re all you’ll ever need!

Sexual Fetishes and Obsessions

We all have our dirty sexual fetishes and sexual obsessions, but how dirty can you get and how obsessed can you be? Fetishes are all around us, whether we see it or not. Read more about  sexual obsessions in bed.

Have you ever caught your partner paying just too much attention to your feet?

And we mean drooling over them…

Whether we realize it or not, all of us have our own sexual fetishes and sexual obsessions.

Some fetishes are too simple to be called a perversity, while some overshadow the word.

Having a sexual fetish

Do you get turned on by your partner in tight leather?

You like them tight… huh?

Do you fantasize about your partner in the nude in public? Naughty you! [Read: Exhibitionism for the shy]

Or secretly wish your partner could dress in different clothes and put on a character while having sex with you? [Read: Sexual role play]

Does your partner love a good threesome? Moresome, baby! [Read: Threesome sex]

Or thinks that doing it in the car is actually exciting? Adventurous now… are we? Fret not! You are not weird, neither is your partner.

Yes, you have a sexual obsession and so does your partner, but that’s no reason for you to worry. Sexual fetishes in human beings vary from person to person.

A sexual obsession that is related to physical intimacy and sex is an essential part of your bedside behavior. Most people refer to such an obsession in common language as a sexual fetish.

What are sexual fetishes?

In medical or psychological terms, a sexual fetish is an object, a practice or a body part, that becomes the focus of a person’s desire while getting it on with a partner. The scientific term applied to sexual fetishes is paraphilia.

These sexual obsessions are relatively harmless as long as they enhance your bedroom satisfaction or desire. However, the moment they become an obsession in your life, you’re treading dangerous ground.

To make things clearer, a sexual fetish in bed is healthy as long as it adds to your pleasure while making out, and enhances your libido. It is not healthy if you can’t function in bed without the sexual obsession. [Read: How to talk dirty in bed]

Everyone’s heard about fetishes, or claims to have one these days. They are no more a taboo topic in several societies, and many people openly claim to have a sexual obsessions and fetishes in bed.

A quick surf on google will introduce you to a host of sexual fetishes, some, surely you wouldn’t even know exists.

Sexual obsessions and society

Most sexual obsessions are socially acceptable, because they’ve been around for so long. Chinese men being turned on by disfigured feet a century ago, men all over the world being turned on by barbie sized women and anime figures now, and women preferring muscular men, are fetishes that have slowly been accepted into society, through evolution or otherwise.

Similarly, by far the most common sexual obsession, podophilia, or an interest for feet, is slowly being accepted the world over.

Sexual fetishes are normal to people who love spicing up their bedtime stories with something new to do with each other. Nobody can ever claim that sexual fetishes are restricted to certain categories of people alone. Often completely ordinary people indulge in their sexual obsessions more passionately than anyone else.

Most people may think sexual fetishes are strange, but in reality, it’s just an arousal that gives more satisfaction in bed. We all have our own sexual obsessions, even if it seems too simple to be called an obsession. Click here to read more about sexual fetishism and fetishist partners.Liked what you just read? Like us on

How to Fantasize about Someone Else and Not Feel Guilty

Now this isn’t for the stubborn minded. But if you’re willing to learn how to fantasize about someone else in bed and have better sex, use these tips.

With a bigger brain and an active imagination, nothing is really unthinkable for us.

We constantly look for ways to have a better life, and at times, a better sex life.

Have you been in love long enough to know how sex is going to feel like, even before you have sex with your partner?

When sex becomes more of a pastime instead of an exciting exploration, things can start to slow down at the hips.

It doesn’t mean you love your partner any less.

It only means that the exciting sex has started to get repetitive, and dare we say it …boring.

There are always ways to bring the excitement back into the bedroom, and as with everything else, you need to use what works for you and skip what doesn’t.

How to fantasize about someone else in bed

Now all of us fantasize in bed. It may not always be intentional, but we’ve all been there and enjoyed it.

You may be in the middle of a long sexathon with your partner, and without preamble, you may remember that sexy guy who rubbed shoulders with you as you danced at earlier night’s party, or you may think of that woman in the short skirt who brushed against you often in the crowded elevator.

It may be a passing thought about anything, but at the moment, it excites you and heightens the pleasure.

Fantasizing isn’t a bad thing

These thoughts are not unusual, but most lovers take these libidinous thoughts to their grave and never talk about it with their partner.

And that’s where they go wrong.

All of us fantasize, and it’s about time every lover accepts that. Both of you may truly love each other, but that doesn’t really mean you can’t get sexually excited by someone else. You’ve had these thoughts in bed. What really makes you think your partner hasn’t?

Instead of shoving it deeper into your head, accept it that both of you indulge in it and talk about it with each other. [Read: How to handle jealousy in a relationship]

How to fantasize with your partner

Can you remember the last time you fantasized about someone else? Well, if you’re in a seasoned relationship, there’s a good chance you thought of someone else the very last time you had sex. Perhaps, if you’re only a few years into a relationship, you may not really need this. But you could give it a shot and see if you like it.

Do you have a good relationship?

Before you even think about how to fantasize together, you need to ask yourselves if both of you feel secure and completely in love with each other. You can’t have a terrible marriage and use a good fantasy to hold the relationship together. Instead of bring you both closer, it may even anger one of you and lead to a break up. So if you want to work your courage to fantasize in bed, you need to respect each other and love each other, a lot.

Improve the communication in the relationship

Fantasizing together in bed doesn’t start off in the bedroom. It starts off with communication at all other times.

Do you and your partner share intimate details and almost all secret, naughty thoughts? When you find a guy attractive or a girl sexy, can you tell your partner that you think that person looks good? If you’re secure enough to talk about each other’s crushes and even other little naughty incidents, it’s a definite sign that both of you love each other a lot to feel awkward about sharing these little details.

[Read: Public flashing confessions]

If you’re insecure or not open to accepting that your partner could have a crush on someone else or think someone else is gorgeous, even if both of you are in a committed relationship, this is definitely not for you. You’re probably insecure or the relationship may be too fragile to try fantasizing together. It takes a lot of trust and love to try something new in bed, especially if it’s this intimate and risqué.

[Read: How to build trust in a relationship]

Talk about the sexy things

Before you even get to bed, be willing to talk to each other about the little naughty things that happen in your daily life.

Did you almost kiss a cute friend as you cheek-kissed each other goodbye?  Or did you graze a woman’s breasts at the supermarket while trying to pick a few oranges? So you liked it?

If you’re truly secure in your relationship, talk about these little naughty things that excite you now and then. A lot of sexual things happen all around us all the time, be it a sneak peek at someone changing or a flirty conversation with a sexy person. And yes, it happens even if you’re deeply in love.

Of course, anything taboo or sexually unexpected in a pleasant manner is bound to excite anyone. Even your loyal partner.

If you want to know how to fantasize about someone else in bed, ask yourself if both of you share such an intimate relationship where you can honestly share your sexual thoughts with each other. If you’re in the slot, well, here’s what you need to do to have some of the sexiest nights of your life.

[Read: Top ten female fantasies]

[Read: Top ten male fantasies]

Click here to continue reading about fantasizing about someone else with your partner and find out how to do it the right way. After all, understanding how to fantasize about someone else in bed too has its own rules.

Sexy Exhibitionism – How to Get Naked in Public

Exhibitionism can be enticing and fun, as long as you keep it clean and don’t overstep your boundaries. Find out how to get naked in public and enjoy a better sex life.

Have you ever indulged in exhibitionism?

Or have you ever felt the urge to get naked in public or wander around your place in the buff?

Or perhaps you’ve wanted to linger around naked and take a small peek out through the drapes?

How to get naked in public

Most of us have liked a bit of flashing, and we’ve also felt an exciting chill run up our ‘sexual-spine’ each time we were almost seen by a hot passer-by on the street.

This feeling of wanting to get naked in public or at an inappropriate place is usually heightened while having sex or in the middle of heavy petting.

The exhibitionist in us all

We see couples making out and groping each other all the time on the dance floors.

We see girls who don’t need a better tan lie down topless on the beaches. And yet, the word ‘exhibitionist’ seems far more dangerous and taboo. Every one of us have an exhibitionist’s streak in us and can’t wait to show ourselves off at an opportune moment, perhaps when we’re far away on a vacation, or when we’re at a party where we just don’t care. [Read: Sexy tips to flash on a vacation]

Exhibitionism and getting naked in public

Now as a matter of fact, as cute as we’re trying to portray exhibitionism to be, the term ‘exhibitionism’ does have its dangerous sexual overtones.

Literally speaking, exhibitionism is a paraphilia or a sexual fetish in which sexual arousal and orgasm is obtained on evoking surprise, shock, dismay, or panic from a stranger by illicitly exhibiting an erotic part of the body.

But when we’re conversing non-literally, we call these men and women who show off body parts as flashers. Flashers are annoying people, usually men, who love walking up to a girl and striking a pose.

We don’t care about them here, nor do we encourage that sort of exhibitionism. Go visit a shrink if you get your jollies up while scaring girls by flashing your privates at them. At Lovepanky, it’s all about mutual back rubbing. Follow the public display of affection laws and flash only if you know it’s going to make someone else happy!

Flashing, getting naked, and dogging!

Now going back to our talk on getting naked in public, seriously, a wee bit of indecent exposure has never hurt anyone, has it? And that’s what everyone does anyways. For years and years, couples and lovers have searched for lonely creeks and quiet corners. It’s their place to share a few moments of love and lovemaking. Eventually, these lonely places were given a name. They were called “Lovers creek”, “Lovers Lane”, “Lovers Park”, or something similar to that.

But as the years rolled by, these places got a lot more crowded and people who were single too, started dogging around this place.

Thus, the word ‘dogging’ was coined. People who hide behind bushes or trees and try watching a couple canoodling are known as “Doggers”. Dogging is thought to have got its name from the men who would stumble across the lovers while out walking their dog. However, dogging nowadays has become less accidental, and it’s become a pleasurable activity for many people. [Read: Seven sexiest places to have sex in public]

Getting naked in public and giving a peek

You’d be quite surprised by the amount of exhibitionism that happens around us every single day. Of course, not the disturbing flashers who jump out of bushes, but the soft hot flashing that can be so hot.

Remember Janet Jackson, Britney Spears or Lindsay Lohan caught flashing out of the blue? Exhibitionists and people who get naked in public give us something to think about and talk about. The last time you wore a short top with a low neckline or a low tight pant that highlighted your cleavage or your bulge, you felt good didn’t you? Why? Because you looked hot. [Read: Girls wearing revealing clothes in the office]

And how would you know that? Because you saw the way the hotties of the opposite sex were staring at you and your assets. Getting the attention of good looking members of the opposite sex will always get your heart racing. So as long as you’re enjoying yourself, what have you got to lose?

You’re never alone in the world of soft exhibitionism and flashing skin in public, celebrities do it all the time. And so do several party hoppers and beach lovers.

Getting naked and enjoying a better sex life

You really don’t have to show off or bare your assets completely. That would just be indecent and inappropriate behavior. As long as it makes you feel sexy, that’s the perfect level of skin-show that you need to feel better about yourself.

Let’s face it, you’d enjoy a better sex life when you’re feeling sexy and desirable. And there’s nothing that can make you feel more desirable than getting an appreciative glance from the opposite sex.

[Read: How to convince a friend to skinny dip with you]

Exhibitionism or getting naked in public can be fun if you know how to go about it. But always remember that it has to be a fun experience for the people involved. Click here to continue reading the sexy guide to flashing in public for the shy.

Where to Find a Nice Guy

Have you been looking for that elusive nice guy? Kevin Smith tells you where to find a nice guy and helps you understand what goes on in a nice guy’s mind.

For most of my life, I’ve always been the nicest guy around. I was nice to everyone. We’ve heard of blooming boy scouts, who are so hell bent on trying to be nice to everything.

Now imagine me at school, I was the leader of boy scouts! Literally!

So that probably makes me one of the nicest guys in the world, waiting to get walked over by everyone who has seen my face.

If there was anything as an Academy Award for the Nicest Guy, I would have won that with my hands tied behind my back. I was that nice!

I helped old women cross the street, stayed sober because I had to drive my friends back after a New Year party, and always made sure I put others’ needs before mine, especially when it came to women.

A nice guy and his love life

I had my first serious relationship with a girl when I was fifteen. The relationship lasted a little over a year.

I knew it wasn’t going to work out two months into the relationship, but I didn’t want to break up because she was a nice girl, and I really didn’t want to break her heart. I silently suffered through a painful year with a girl who pretended like she was still single and kept our relationship a secret from her friends, especially her guy friends.

And what happened eventually was that she dumped me and walked out on me two days before our ‘one year two months’ anniversary and hooked up with another guy who wore a leather jacket and had pierced ears.

I’ve had several women best friends since I was a young kid, and I used to speak with all of them for hours on end over the phone. All the girls in my college liked me a lot, and they kept reminding me about what a nice guy I was. Of course, I liked hearing that. [Read: Are you more than friends?]

Friends, crushes and getting stuck in between

After graduating, I met this gorgeous girl, who took the air straight out of my lungs. She was exceptionally beautiful and very sweet. Eventually, after bumping into each other now and then, we became really good friends.

The only problem with her was that she was really depressed all the time. We used to sit down over coffee for hours, and I loved being around her. Within the first two years after knowing her, she had been in six relationships and walked out of all of them, and there I was, sitting next to her, falling in love more and more with her while she used to hug me and look deep into my eyes.

All I gave a damn about was how her boobs felt against me when she hugged me, but of course, what could I ever tell her? [Read: Why men like breasts?]

I could never tell her I had a big crush on her. I mean, the closeness we shared would eventually get us together, right? And after each hug, she used to tell me the same thing, “You are the sweetest guy I’ve ever met. I wish more guys were like you.”

She even asked me the question that could have changed our relationship once, “tell me where to find a nice guy who would love me?” I just smiled and responded cryptically that he’s probably just around the corner waiting for her to recognize him. I wanted love to blossom through friendship like it did in the movies. The girl dates a million guys and finally realizes that the love of her life was right next to her. [Read: How to tell if a guy likes you]

When the nice guy loses his charm

After years of being by her side and putting up with everything she had ever told me, that’s what I was. A friend. After being there for her for so long, all I was to her was a friggin’ friend! And what upset me was that she wanted a nice guy, but she never did fall in love with me. [Read: How to ask a friend out]

Our “mutual” friendship lasted five years, until one of her longer boyfriends found me threatening and asked her to avoid me, or break up with him. Yup, wasn’t she a true friend. She decided to part ways with me in happiness, so that we don’t hate each other. She never called me after that, and I still missed her. I didn’t miss listening to her rant about her guys, but I missed her warmth and I missed not having an opportunity to have gone out with her.

Mr. Nice Guy no more!

I had basically been through most of my prime years being really nice to women while they just steam-rolled all over me. The days when I could actually date young women without having to pay them for sex were coming to a close. I was getting desperate.

And then, one day, as I was sitting on a park bench and contemplating if I should turn gay or die a virgin, something struck me! [Read: What is the right age to get married?]

Nope, it wasn’t an illuminating revelation. It was a big red Spalding basketball.

A bunch of guys were playing in the court nearby, and a few girls were watching the game. As the ball hit me, I was floored. I raised my head up groggily to see stars flickering in front of my eyes. I looked around and saw a few of the girls laughing until they turned pink. The guy who threw the ball towards me too, was roaring with laughter. And eventually one of the guys picked the ball up and walked away, without even apologizing to me.

I even saw one of the guys splash half a bottle of water on one of the girls. The girl yelled at him, and eventually, she started chasing him down. The guy and the girl caught up, they just hugged playfully, kissed and laughed out loud. I wondered why these good looking girls liked hanging around with a bunch of jerks when nice boy scouts like me were lonely and dumped all the time without the least bit of remorse.

I was hurt. My eyes welled up with tears, and streamed down my cheeks. I was in my early twenties, naïve, and I was so bitter and angry. And what made it all so much worse was that I was helpless. Women wondered where to find a nice guy, and even when I stood right in front of them, they walked all over me.

And at that moment, I vowed to change my life, and stop being nice to people, especially women. I was Mr. Nice Guy no more. I prided myself for being a really nice guy all this while and girls laughed at me, ridiculed me and walked all over me.

I wasn’t going to let that happen ever again. And almost overnight, I became rude and spoke my mind out without hesitation. My old friends drifted away and I made new friends. I became selfish and the world was just about me and only me. For the first time, I started enjoying life and meeting women who wanted to be with me, not because I was nice, but because I was someone they desired.

Where to find a nice guy?

So really, where are all the nice men? Perhaps, women have forced the nice guys to go extinct, or evolve into jerks that get women instantly. [Read: Is it wrong to be a bitchy girl?]

Can you believe that? Of course, you don’t. But it’s true. Women change nice guys into jerks and wonder where all the nice guys have gone! [Read: Why you can’t find love]

But we have the big question here, where to find a nice guy after walking all over him in the first place? Many people say you’d find nice guys in book clubs, concerts or even in the meat section of grocery stores. But is that true? I don’t think so.

You have as much a chance of finding a nice guy in a grocery store as much as you may have finding him in a coffee shop or any place else in the world. Nice guys are everywhere, and you’d probably bump into several of them every single day. But do you really care or even notice them? [Read: Love at first sight – The real truth]

Women may not know it themselves, but they’re really not looking for a nice guy. Women think they want a nice guy, but in reality, they really don’t. So if I were you, I’d stop looking for a nice guy because you’re not going to be happy with a nice guy anyways. It took me years to understand the psyche of a nice guy and why they end up losers in love. After all, I was a nice guy for most part of my life.

Understanding the mind of a nice guy

So who is a nice guy really? Is he nice by choice or is he just nice because he has no choice at all?

To be frank, nice guys aren’t gentlemen, they’re whining wussies. Nice guys have a huge inferiority complex, and they just can’t handle a confrontation. They don’t know how to say ‘no’ and they’re terribly afraid that women will reject them if they don’t go out of their way to be nice to women.

You know that nice guy, the same one that says “Is everything okay with you? Are you sure? Are you really, really sure? Talk to me about how you feel, okay, I’m here for you… I’ll always be here for you… Is there anything else I can get you…?” Well, that was me, that same dork you see in stupid teen movies, the same guy who gets a barrel of beer overturned on his head, while all the others laughed at him.

Nice guys constantly convince themselves that they’re better and nicer than other guys. I’ve been there and done that. Instead of manning up and facing a conflict or asking a girl out directly, they slink away and convince themselves that they are great guys who can handle anything if faced with an unavoidable situation, or get any girl they want if they really made a move.

They go out of their way to help others and love getting compliments and hearing that statement, ‘you are such a nice guy’. It reaffirms what they’re thinking, that they’re the nicest guys in the world, and that every other guy is a loser. But when a girl declines to go out with them, nice guys assume the world is conspiring against them and that women hate nice guys.

When you date a nice guy, he’s never going to speak his mind. He’ll only say what you want to hear, be it about your dress or the plans for the evening or what to order at a restaurant. By saying what you want to hear, he’s avoiding conflict and at the same time, making it appear like both of you have perfect compatibility. But these kinds of relationships can never work out or even be real, and after a while, women will start to hate this ever-agreeing and overly sensitive man who’s fake and constantly craving for your attention or dealing with emotional insecurities.

What kind of a man do women really need to be happy?

To be really happy with a perfect man, you need to stop trying to find a nice guy. Instead, look for a guy with three traits – a guy who loves you, respects you and most of all, respects himself. These guys are harder to find, but you’ll know if a guy respects you and respects himself in the very first conversation. And the best part, these men can be found everywhere. [Read: How to find love]

It takes one respectful and loving man and one complimenting and loving woman for a relationship to be happy and successful. Not a nice guy. And definitely not a woman who feels guilty for stepping all over a nice guy. [Read: Is he the one for you?]

[Read: Dating facts]

So if you’re ever wondering where to find a nice guy, stop looking for him. He’s not worth your time, and you’ll end up walking all over him and leaving him bitter and rude anyway!

How to Know if He is The One

When you fall in love with someone who’s nice and sweet, it’s easy to overlook what really matters. But these flaws can reveal themselves years later and destroy a relationship. So how to know if he is the one right now, and avoid the pain of walking out later?

Click here to read the first six questions to find out the truth, is he the one?

Falling in love is always a wonderful experience. But too many times, we fall in love with a guy and start to dislike a few traits about him.

But we overlook it as a habit and move on.

How to know if he is the one

Those annoying habits could be overlooked but many years later, these same habits of your boyfriend can surface and shatter your relationship.

When you date a man who’s not the one for you, you may even end up ruining your own life.

Find out how to know if he is the one with these pointers.

Does your man have these qualities?

Of all the qualities that create a recipe for a successful relationship, these twelve qualities [First six qualities: Is he the one?] can be the difference between a happy relationship and a broken one.

He likes your package

Yeah, you’ve got great boobs, we know. But that’s not what we’re talking here.

When you get into a relationship, both of you bring your own burdens and packages.

In this case, the package is your family, your friends, and everything else that defines you.

Does he try to get along with your family? Does he make your friends feel comfortable when he meets them? [Read: Meeting the in-laws]

If you’re wondering how to know if he is the one, see the way he behaves around the people that matter to you.

If he’s indifferent or not particularly bothered to impress your package, then he’s not really interested in a long term relationship with you.

He’s not overly unpredictable

Does he come home late one night, or cancels a date out of the blue for no apparent reason? Does he start sulking or whining now and then and doesn’t say why?

Bad boys and unpredictable men may seem sexually exciting and interesting. A woman may look at it like a pet project to tame a wild stallion. But it doesn’t really work that way if you want him to be the one for you.

Unpredictable men can end up making you very frustrated and angry over the years, and can lead to arguments in love. If he can’t be tamed, set him free.

He sees your future

Spending a lot of time together can stifle relationships and prevent either of you from growing as individuals. But that’s where that one special guy makes the difference. Does he help you nurture your own dreams? Does he encourage you to try new things? [Read: How to be a confident woman]

You may tell him you want to quit your job and start your own venture, or you may ask him for some ideas on how to make your project better. How does he respond to that? Does he sit with you when he’s got the time and tries finding a few workable solutions, or does he just shrug his shoulders and says he has no idea?

How to know if he is the one? A man who doesn’t pay attention to his woman’s dreams and aspirations is a selfish pig who doesn’t care what you do in life as long as he’s happy.

He’s not jealous of you

Many chauvinistic men are extremely jealous of their girlfriend’s success. At times, they will intentionally stay away from helping you, or start sulking or behaving badly when you get more attention. Jealousy is a part of us and we can’t really get rid of it.

But a man who truly loves you will beam with joy and pride each time you succeed in something instead of getting annoyed. Does your boyfriend try to hog attention by acting like a child when you’re in the limelight? Perhaps, he’s jealous of you and can’t really accept the fact that you could become more successful than him. A person like this will never help you, or even let you succeed in life.

He makes you a better person

We’ve heard of women making men better men. But it has to work the other way too. Does he help you become better at what you do? Does he emotionally support you? Does he give you the motivation and determination to become a better person? All of us feel down and feel like failures when we’re lost in life [Read: Feel lost in life]. At times like these, we need a partner who can make us see the bright side of things, someone who knows us inside out and gives us the strength to stand again. Can he be that man for you?

A relationship is about give and take, yes. But if he is the one, he will protect you and make you a better person, even if you’re the only person stopping yourself from going ahead in life.

He puts up with you

Every now and then, women do get moody. Can he handle it without getting frustrated with you?

All of us suffer from sudden bouts of irritation or frustration, both men and women. But most men have a lower tolerance for mood swings and unpredictable behavior. Can your man smile with you and put up with you? Can he shower you with affection when you’re feeling lonely, and put up with your tantrums when you’re irritated? You’ll know if he is the one when he can bear with your tantrums.

He’s looking for you!

Just like how you’re looking for the one, a great guy’s looking for his one too. While these pointers may help you, he’s got his own pointers in mind too. If you really want to see yourself in a happy relationship, you should remember that it’s all about give and take in love. If you want him to be the one, you should follow these pointers and be the one for him too.

Is he the one? Does he really exist?

Many girls wonder if great guys who are defined by these traits actually exist in real life. But as a matter of fact, they do. We’ve watched the family guy for far too long and assumed he’s the typical guy!

But in reality, there are a lot of great men who are out there, waiting to meet you and be the one for you. All you have to do is give a great guy a chance to love you.

How to know if he is the one? You’d never know until you take the plunge and give him a chance to love you.  But remember to communicate, learn and give love a chance to blossom into a great one.

How to Deal with Jealousy in a Relationship


Jealousy isn’t always a sign of weakness or insecurity. It could also be an expression of love. Understand how to deal with jealousy in a relationship and experience a happier relationship.

Jealousy in a relationship isn’t always easy to handle.

It can confuse anyone into believing that the relationship is threatened even if they’re in a perfect relationship.

Jealousy crops up in many ways, but in essence, it’s a sign of insecurity and the fear of losing the one you love.

And jealously in a relationship is never ever a bad thing.

No one chooses to be jealous, and almost always it’s misunderstanding and lack of communication that leads to jealousy.

How to deal with jealousy in a relationship

You may get jealous of your partner for several reasons.

You may not like the fact that they’re hanging out with someone else and having a lot of fun, or you may just feel insecure about losing your lover to someone else.

While jealousy due to misunderstanding is acceptable, irrational jealousy isn’t.

When a partner is threatened or feels jealous for the smallest of reasons, it’s almost always a sign of social insecurity and low self esteem.

You may be driven by your fears of losing the one you love and your insecurities may reveal your jealousy as a plea for more love and care. It is human nature, after all, to crave for reassurance and love when doubt arises.

But you should always remember that jealousy is actually one of the biggest causes for the downfall of a relationship. So when you do feel jealous, you don’t bring your partner closer. In fact, you drive them away with your behavior!

Getting rid of jealousy

Learn to trust your partner and don’t doubt them unnecessarily. Regain your confidence and remember that they do love you, and your lover is not going to stop loving you by just talking to someone attractive.

Let there be no secrecy and if something bothers you, tell your partner in a clear and pleasant manner that you did not like or appreciate their behavior. This is a lot better than the good old show of the green eyed monster.

Coping with the green eyed monster

It’s hard to just smile and sit quietly while your partner is flirting or having a fun time with another attractive person, especially while you’re around. It may also make sense for you to get jealous when you see your mate dancing with someone else at a party, or while they’re hugging and kissing an old attractive “friend” whom they met after a long time.

But you know what, your partner’s behavior is completely acceptable.

Put yourself in their place, wouldn’t you hug or kiss a very good friend of the opposite sex if you bump into them after ages? Wouldn’t you be happy to see them? Have you ever found yourself flirting with someone while your partner wasn’t around? Wouldn’t you dance with a good looking friend if your partner’s too tired to dance anymore?

Jealousy pops out of your head, not by the actions of your partner or anything else, but by your own misconceptions. It’s all about the way you perceive and see things.

Humans have a tendency of being pessimistic and hope for the worst when it comes to relationships, and this tendency affects your rational mind. If you were just sitting with your friends and you notice two of your friends who are dating each other having a petty fight over a bit of jealousy, wouldn’t you tell yourself that they were just acting stupid?

Now how are you behaving when you mistrust your partner all the time? The problem with dealing with jealousy in a relationship is that most people forget to put themselves into their partner’s shoes and see what they would have done. You may have had your share of fun too if you were in your lover’s place.

Jealousy in a relationship – Steps to handle it

It is normal to get jealous in love, but jealousy should never be shoved aside or pushed under the carpet. The only way to overcome jealousy in a relationship is by confronting it and overcoming it. At times you may be the one who’s feeling jealous, or at times, your partner may be the one. The best way to help each other is through effective communication and understanding. [Read: How to communicate effectively in a relationship]

Listen to your partner, really!

Your partner may be trying to say something to you, so pay attention. Most of the times, when jealousy sets in, all your lover wants you to do is pay attention to them, and show them you still care. If you want to work this out, then both of you should be ready to listen to each other and hear what each of you have to say. Try to read your partner’s mind and their actions and give them enough attention if they’re feeling alone while you’re holding someone else’s hand.

Communicate and understand

If you’re annoyed with your partner about something, then just tell them about it. You may sulk and make the day worse for the both of you. Instead of plotting in your mind, just say what’s on your mind and you can work things out faster and have more time to spend in happiness, than in misery. And if your partner wants to tell you something, don’t walk away even if you feel like it makes no sense. Remember, what seems like nonsense to you could mean a lot to your partner when they are hurt and want your reassurance. [Read: How to stay in love forever]

Read the signs

Most of the times, even if your partner is hurt or feeling low, they may not tell you anything about it. So look out for signs that suggest they’re upset about something. Give your sweetheart a hug, rub their shoulders or run your hands through their hair and talk to them. Coax your partner into saying what’s on their mind and let them know that they mean a lot to you. Sometimes, it’s easy to misunderstand, but it’s always easier to make a partner feel better if you try.

Put yourself in their shoes

One of the best ways to deal with jealousy in a relationship is to learn to put yourself in your lover’s shoes. What would you have done if you were in your lover’s place? Would you have behaved the same way? Try to always put yourself in their shoes and try and understand what your partner is going through. Perhaps, your partner is just being nice or trying to make a good impression. Does everything in the world have to revolve around your partner wanting to break up with you? [Read: How to give space to your partner]

Reassurance

One of the best ways to deal with jealousy is to reassure your partner. If you get angry with your partner for getting jealous, things will only get worse. Tell your mate that you’re sorry to have neglected them, if you did neglect them. Or just reassure your mate and let them know how much you love them and care about them. When someone gets jealous, remember, more than anything else, they’re afraid of losing you and they want your attention, badly! [Read: How to build trust in a relationship]

Jealousy and love

When you feel jealous in a relationship, remember that it’s not a bad sign and it’s not something to be ashamed of. It’s just that you care about someone too much and can’t imagine someone new taking them away from you. At times, you may not like your lover flirting with someone because you feel that they’re having a better time, even without you around. This brings out a feeling of insecurity which can turn into bitter jealousy. [Read: How to be happy in a relationship]

Jealousy can be cute if it’s experienced in moderation, but anything beyond that can change your happy relationship into a frustrated one.

Learn to relax and have a good time when you’re in love, instead of suspecting your lover all the time. Jealousy in a relationship is just a subconscious way to get attention, so learn to face situations and communicate with your partner when you feel low. [Poll: How to have a long relationship]

And always understand the importance of listening when your partner is depressed or angry for no apparent reason. At times like that, there’s almost always a big reason.

At times, jealousy in a relationship may seem trivial, but if not confronted and overcome, jealousy can burn your relationship apart. Understanding and reassurance is what it takes to hold your love together and overpower the green eyed monster that’s lurking in the corners, waiting to hurt you and make you hate your lover. So overcome jealousy in a relationship and reassure, communicate and fall in love with your sweetheart, more with every day!

[Read: How to change a jealous boyfriend]

Always remember that jealousy in a relationship is the fear of losing a lover and not a sign of aggression or possessiveness. Learn to deal with jealousy in a relationship with these simple tips and you’ll have a healthier and happier relationship.

Flashing in Public – A How-To Guide for the Shy

Flashing in public is weird and creepy, or that’s what some say. But then again, every single one of us flash in public, given the right circumstances! Don’t think so? Read on…

And if you’ve just strayed in here, click here to read the introduction on how to get naked in public before reading this.

Now flashing in public can seem perverted and twisted, but seriously, we’re never going to promote the weird mentally damaged perverted flashers, nor do we encourage anything that isn’t enjoyed by everyone involved.

So if you want to know more about the shy guy or girl’s guide to flashing in public, read on, and you’ll know how you can have an unbelievable sex life in a flash!

After all, premeditated flashing in public is sexy, and so darn va-va voom!

Sexy flashing in public for the shy

Again, we’re straying away from the actual act of pervy flashers and talking about the peek-a-boo’s and little slips that we all love.

You may be enjoying it already or perhaps you’ve never tried it yet.

Most shy exhibitionists want to show off, but find themselves backing out at the last minute.

Want to see how it feels? The next time you’re getting intimate with your mate, try peeping through the drapes while having sex. That way, you can see the world outside but no one would be able to see you. And yet, the fear of getting caught in the act can make it all the more exciting. [Read: How to take nude pictures of your lover]

Excitement and flashing in public

For a beginner, flashing in public is a different exciting rush passionate sex will not be able to give. Try making out in the rear seats of a movie theatre. It’s all some form of exhibitionism just like kissing in public, and these can leave you with memories that can enhance your sex life.

You may be caught in a rush of sexual adrenalin, but try not to overdo yourself while you’re in the act. Having your windows wide open and closing your eyes may be fun if you’re in a resort or in an isolated beach house, but not in your own home.

You never know if it is your milkman or your mother-in-law who sees you in the act. For starters, don’t show yourself to the world, just a peek outside would give you a good rush. Remember, stupid things can happen when you’re horny. Sometimes, you may just regret what you did. Stay safe, and have fun without going all out.

Places to enjoy a good flash of skin

Any place is a good place, just as long as you use your common sense. Most soft flashers work their magic at parties and discotheques. At every party, you are bound to see a few couples making out wildly showing a bit of skin now and then. It’s exciting to watch them, and fun for the couple who’s doing it.

If you want to know how a good show of public flashing feels like, start off by choosing a good corner in a crowded club and have fun with each other.

[Read: The sexiest types of sex you can ever have]

Flashing in public confession

Says Andre, 25, about a time when he was making out with his girl on a crowded dance floor, “We were in this place called the Aqua Bar and it was late in the night. My girl and I were dancing and we finally got to a corner of the dance floor. We started kissing and groping all over each other, oblivious to the rest of the world. A couple of minutes later, I saw this good looking girl standing next to us and just watching. I was unnerved and was wondering what to do. She was just staring intently and I was quite surprised by her boldness. My girlfriend hadn’t noticed her as she still had her eyes closed. A minute later, I thought I could feel another hand crawl up my behind, and I suddenly realized that it was the other girl’s hand. She was brushing my butt! My girlfriend and I stopped kissing after a while and the other girl too stopped brushing me. She just smiled at me, when my girl wasn’t looking and walked away! Boy, I can never forget that.”

Soft exhibitionism doesn’t happen just at parties, it happens in beaches too. But for starters, having sexual fun on the beach is the best option because you’re always surrounded by several people from all sides. A lonely beach can be hot though.

Other than these best two options, that’s the clubs and the beaches, vacation times and hillside getaways, hotel rooms, swimming pools, terraces, penthouse suites and a lot of other equally good places can give you a good spot for exhibitionism and public flashing. The best part about flashing in public is the high it can give you when you’re having sex with your own partner and talking about it. [Read: How to fantasize about someone else with your partner]

Safe flashing and regrets

I wish I could say there was a safe way to have a safe exposé. Unfortunately there isn’t, without killing the adrenalin rush the exhibitionist gets from the fear of discovery. Experiment with the mild, go braless or without underwear for instance, but keep people guessing.

This gives a bigger thrill than taking out Mr. Dicky or Miss. Perky for the entire world to see. You may get a lot bolder when you’re having sex. After all, a lot of things happen to us when we’re having sex. We shed a lot of our inhibitions and we become a lot bolder. We talk dirty, talk about having sex with other people, and fantasize about a lot of other things. [Read: Tips to talk dirty and sexy in bed]

But when you’re having sex, and want to try a bout of soft public flashing, life could move on the wild side without you actually knowing it. Try not showing yourself off completely and obviously unless you’re on a vacation. You don’t want to give a peek-a-boo to your apartment security or maid, only to have them return the compliment to you every now and then!

If you’re not sure about flashing in public, don’t do it. While you’re at a pool, in a beach, or at a party, things like nip-slips and bulges are glanced at and not considered offensive, but doing the same thing at home might just gain you the winning title of ‘horny couple of the neighborhood”.

A couple making out on their lawn looks hot in a condom advertisement, but can be considered cheap and crass in real life. So unless you want to have a few regrettable incidents and stares from neighbors bothering your mind, avoid baring your body for all to see, all the time.

But then again, if you’re only *accidently* showing yourself off in public, or flashing in public in vacation spots, then hey, go for it. You know you’ll love a good flash while you’re driving through a lonely road with your partner.

All said and done, flashing in public can be sexy and fun, as long as you don’t do anything you’ll regret. Have fun, get the sexual excitement of a public flash racing and enjoy a better sex life with your partner.

Click here to read a few sexy public flashing confessions from our readers.

Tips to Turn Him On

Sex lives can start to get boring and monotonous if you don’t really find ways to turn him on and keep the magic alive. Use these tips to turn him on and very soon, he’ll find his own ways to turn you on in return.

In almost every relationship, the start is always exciting and a huge turn on.

Every day is like unwrapping a new present and you can’t wait to be with each other.

But as time passes by, things can get quite monotonous and activities like sex can seem like a weekly chore.

If you really want to change all that, you need to bring the excitement back alive.

Here are ten of the best tips to turn him on and bring the magic back into lovemaking.

Tips to turn him on

You’ve tried luring him with enticing layers of lingerie, and all the other accessories in your little ladies’ bag, but at most times you know it just doesn’t work.

But if you really want him to chase you around the house, you have to understand the male psyche.

Guys love to be chased after too, be complimented, and once in a while, even leered at.

Try these ten surefire ways to turn him on!

Say the right word

Don’t be boring when you want to compliment him. Don’t go for boring lines like “you’re so hot” or “you’re so good in bed.” It’s too easy.

You like something in particular about him, say it! “I love your shoulders” or “you have such strong arms” does the trick way better. You’ll even catch him staring at himself with admiration in the mirror after receiving such compliments.

Stare at him

You know what this means. Stare at him the same way those construction workers stare at your tight top or that plunging neckline [Read: Men who stare at women]. Stare at him, up and down. Strip him bare with your stare! And let him know you’re doing it. And what the hell, lick your lips or even wolf whistle if you feel like it.

Touch him

Guys don’t really hate it when you go groping all over them, especially if you top the act with a compliment like “I just can’t keep my hands to myself when you’re around!” Run your hand up his thigh, slide it under his shirt. You know how to do it.

Surprise him

Call him in the middle of the day, and tell him you’re staring at his semi-clad picture on your cell phone [Read: How to take nude photos of your lover], and you can’t stop thinking about later that night. Or just tell him that your mind is still exploding after last night’s passion. Catch him at a right time, and he wouldn’t be able to think of anything but you for the rest of the day. And hey, he’ll even have that stupid grin on his face!

Use these simple tips to turn him on, and it’ll do the trick. Remember, you don’t always need to turn him on with over the top antics. At times, simple is great too. Click here to continue reading the next five points on how to turn him on.